The Changing Bond: New Generation Moms and their Children

Reshmi Mohan A, Child Developmental Therapist, SUT Hospital, Pattom

The bond between a mother and her child has long been seen as sacred and irreplaceable. In earlier times, mothers were deeply respected and their sacrifices were acknowledged with gratitude. However, in today’s fast-paced and digitally dominated world, this relationship appears to be undergoing a significant change.

Modern mothers handle multiple roles—managing careers, homes and emotional well-being often without complaint. Their commitment to raising responsible and happy children remains unwavering. Yet, the younger generation sometimes overlooks these efforts. Acts of care, such as setting rules or offering advice are occasionally misinterpreted as interference, leading to emotional distance or even drastic actions by children.

In an age dominated by social media, affection for mothers is often reduced to posts and pictures during special occasions like Mother’s Day. While these gestures may bring momentary joy, what mothers truly seek is emotional connection and support, the same care they unconditionally gave their children.

Love towards mothers cannot be replaced by a caretaker or an old age home. As they grow older, mothers expect for the physical and emotional presence of their children. A daily conversation of even ten minutes can bring immense comfort to them.

For students and young adults especially, it is important to share both their joys and struggles with their mothers. A mother’s instincts and life experience often guide children toward the right path. Respect, open communication and empathy form the foundation of a strong mother-child bond.

Let us not allow this sacred relationship to fade into a formality. Instead, let’s renew it with time, love and appreciation. A mother’s love is unconditional; it deserves to be met with equal devotion and care before it’s too late.